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this topic is about does language affect who our friends are? I say yes, because at my school it is fifty percent white fifty black and i only see the whites hanging out with only the whites and the blacks with the blacks and i was wondering if that was because of the way our language is towards each other and i know that the blacks use the word nigga and the whites don't say it at all so I'm thinking that's it because a long time ago they were raised to call us niiga so now that racism is over they have problems with saying it because they feel its going to affend us but it doesn't affend me because i call my brother and peers nigga all the time but this is not just about the word nigga its about all words slang and all blacks tend to curse or be loud and i feel thats a reason why the don't come around us as much i cant really say much about the whites because I'm in this situation now